Thanksgiving

Today was Thanksgiving Day.

Doug, Anna and I had a great meal at Crystal Mountain Resort .

We have always had friends and relatives for Thanksgiving, but this year was different and we learned a good lesson.

It's not the food that matters it is family and fellowship.

However, because of our situation this year we were able to go and spend the afternoon with mom and dad in Ludington.

They were sitting together as usual, well dressed and nicely groomed.

Their faces brightened as they saw us enter and dad quickly stood up, as a gentleman should, to greet us.

He asked how our Thanksgiving had been and occasionally thought today had been Christmas.

But he did know that today was a special day.

I am so glad that we went.

I am thankful for my parents.

I love to see their faces and to laugh with them about nothing.

Today mom wanted to sing:

"Someone's in the kitchen with Dina, someone's in the kitchen I know, ow,ow ow.

Someone's in the kitchen with Dina strumming on the old banjo."

We laughed and sang all that we knew of it.

Dad told me that mom was goofy now and I told him that he had to take care of her and commended him for being so patient. He seemed to accept that.

He then told me to be sure to get the boat out on the buoy securely and to keep the cottage warm enough.

I assured him that I would.

He held my hand all the time we were there.

I love you mom and dad

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

Shirley and Barbara - sisters and best friends

Aunt Shirley, mom's older sister, died yesterday.

She was 89 years old.

Mom depended on her big sister for advice and comfort all through their long lives.

Mom will not be able to mourn for her sister.

But she has happy memories still.

She knows her sister when she sees her in a photograph.

We will all miss Shirley Lake.

She had a long and happy life filled with a good husband, 4 children and lots of grandchildren and great grandchildren.

I will post more photos of mom and her sister later.

A Good Visit

We were having a good visit at SLC last week. Mom, who had been sick, was well and walking much better--steadier.

As we were sitting together on the sofa mom held her hands out in front of her and said,

"Aren't they pretty?"

I'm sure she did not mean to say that - she wanted to say something else but it did not come out right.

Dad looked at me as if to say,"Is she crazy?"

Then, as the loving husband that he still is, he said "yes" and gently caressed her cheek with his hand.

She had been fussing but took his hand in hers and once again they were a happy couple.

For the first time ever when I went to leave mom took my hand in a tight grasp and said,

" Stay here-don't leave!"

It was hard for me to go.

Veteran's Day 2010

It was our second Veteran Day celebration at Sutter Living Center. Ten veterans were honored with a full display of colors, uniformed VFW personnel and a 5 gun salute.

Song sheets were handed out to everyone but they were not needed as each man there sang from memory, "America the Beautiful" and "God Bless America".

Nine of the men were WWII vets, one man fought in the Korean War. All but dad were in wheelchairs. Two were amputees and 4 had oxygen tanks attached to their wheelchairs. At least 2 had Alzheimer's and some could barely lift their heads--but all smiled and raised their hands as their names were called out.

It was a good day for America.

It was a proud moment for them as they have so little left.

We had coffee and cake afterwards and talked and laughed and the men told some stories as best they could.

Dad helped clear the tables and watched over mom as a good and faithful husband should and then we all went home.

It was a good day.