Our visit yesterday was one of the best in the past year.
As mom saw us coming in the door her face lit up with a happy smile.
She was full of kisses and hugs for the children.
Another resident, Flo, was just as happy as mom and took Joshua to be her own, I think. I was truly amazed as I had never heard Flo say one meaningful sentence, but as she was with the children she said, "Isn't he cute?" "He is such a good boy." She asked Bethany if she went to church!!and there were more good sentences.
Children bring out all the good memories in the dementia patient.
I know Flo had sons so perhaps a 2 year old boy was a wonderful trip back in time for her.
Bethany had not remembered Mom and Dad from a happier time--but as we were leaving and getting in the car she said, "I really like them."
Here is Flo welcoming Joshua.
Dad asked Bethany many questions--like how old was she? Did she do any cooking? and his favorite, "why didn't you comb your hair?" We forgive him for that, don't we Bethany?
He cried a few times and called her Anna more than once--but he was happy and knew these were people who belonged to him.
Joshua took Flo for a walk--or did she take him? Anyway, he usually stays right with his dad, but was intrigued with Flo.
Mom just loved him--he was saying "HI" to everyone and waving.
Joshua loved the wheelchair and wanted to take a ride in it. I offered but he wanted Joe to take him. When Joe wouldn't Joshua started to cry. Dad said," aren't you too big a boy to cry over something like that?" Well, dad has always been Mr. Blunt, but it did quiet Joshua down, I think,
Great visit--
Mom and Dad were looking good.
Anyone wanting to visit should try to get up this summer..
Simply Precious... What a marvelous remembrance for everyone. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteSo glad they has a nice time! So sweet that Joshua was good and had fun with all of them. Every time I am in LaGrange I miss Grandma and Grandpa and how it used to be!
ReplyDeleteLena